Also, We have been within an inter-racial relationships, never ever dated any black colored males and locks has not been a problem. Its simply any. Oh you ought to view “Something brand brand brand New” Everyone loves that film!
gimbap
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- Jan 6, 2021
We might get stoned because of this.
But we notice a great deal women from the board (at the very least too much to me personally) have actually caucasian significant others/husbands. can you have the want to increase your locks very very long so you to look more european in terms of hair that you can compete with white women?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever ask questions like “Why don’t a lot of black woman have long hair” or try to persuade?
lsubabiedee
Fellow Member
- Jan 6, 2021
We might get stoned with this.
But we notice a great deal women regarding the board (at the least a great deal to me personally) have actually caucasian others/husbands that are significant. can you have the want to develop your locks very long so that you could contend with white ladies?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever make inquiries like “Why do not plenty of black colored woman have traditionally locks” or attempt to persuade one to look more european in regards to hair?
i dont have the need certainly to develop my locks very long to contend with anybody. I dont see longer hair on white women for the part that is most. my therefore could care less concerning the period of my locks. he had never expected me personally to straighten my locks, nor has he seen my hair directly, me to do anything to my hair that i didnt want to do so he has never tried to persuade.
i genuinely dont date males that suffer from my locks. i fall them utilizing the quickness.
lovelymissyoli
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- Jan 6, 2021
Ayeshia
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- Jan 6, 2021
LadyJ76
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- Jan 6, 2021
cmw45
Well-Known User
- Jan 6, 2021
We might get stoned because of this.
But we notice a whole lot women in the board (at the very least a great deal to me personally) have actually caucasian others/husbands that are significant. can you have the need certainly to develop your locks very long so that one may take on white ladies?? Does your caucasian SO/husband ever make inquiries like “Why do not lots of black colored woman have very long locks” or attempt to persuade one to look more european in terms of locks?
ebonylocs
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- Jan 6, 2021
I believe many (smart, open-minded) guys, of whatever competition, never care much as to what you will do to the hair on your head. On it, or if it looks especially raggedy, they might comment on it if they like a style, they might comment. Otherwise, at that since they are with you, they probably like how you look, think your hair suits you, and leave it. OR they may produce a hassle in the event that you make a difference sooner or later when you’re ALREADY into the relationship. I have been in relationships with expansion braids, normal quick and long, Wave Nouveau quick and long, relaxed quick and long, & most guys did not appear to notice one of the ways or perhaps one other.
oobrittany: in the event that you carry on “nappturality.com”, a web site for Ebony ladies with normal locks which has a certain black colored empowerment theme taking place, you will see that a big (possibly disproportionate) quantity of ladies on the website have white / other spouses. And threads will always started regarding how white partners appear to help a big change to normal hair more than black colored guys do, or exactly exactly exactly how on going normal, how many black colored males attempting to holler decreases although the amount of white males checking you out increases.
Given that will not be experience that is*my* and I also do not know when it is entirely real. But as another poster commented, it might be black colored dudes that are more hung through to the concept of “long”, “straight” or “good” locks – as a result of all of the historic baggage we carry. Even though many white dudes simply think about black colored hair as different things and maybe cool.
OP: you won’t be sharing to the man you’re seeing how “we” i.e. black colored females, do our hair, but how *you* do the hair on your head. Not absolutely all black colored females unwind, deep condition, or make use of plenty of locks items. Some simply perform some minimum. Just what exactly you are doing to your own hair is a piece of *you* that your particular BF shall learn over the years.
nelli711
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- Jan 6, 2021
I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 1/2 years and then he is white. He knew nothing about black hair before me. Hair was not a deal that is big him. Yes, he has expected a couple of concerns about “our” hair once the relationship ended up being answered and new their concerns and then we left it at that. He could not care less if I happened to be bald, so no we don’t feel just like i need to compete growing my locks down with white females.
Now. he understands a great deal about hair about it, only because I love to talk about hair because I talk to him . From the a tale he said not long ago, he had been at the office and him and a few white females got regarding the discussion of locks, plus one of this females had produced remark that black colored hair grow that is doesnt just exactly how our locks remains brief in which he said to told them that black colored hair does grow and went into this big conversation about black colored haircare. LoL I Became impressed!! All of the occasions when we speak with him about locks and items, we never truly thought he had been really paying attention for me. He gets therefore tired about me personally speaing frankly about locks to him but I do not communicate with someone else about it because no body else knows. In general, I became delighted he educated many of them white females a little about our locks.
sweetwhispers
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- Jan 6, 2021
Given that will not be experience that is*my* and I also have no idea in case it is entirely real. But as another poster commented, it may possibly be black colored guys who will be more hung through to the concept of “long”, “straight” or “good” hair – as a result of most of the historic luggage we carry. Even though many guys that are white think about black colored locks as different things and maybe cool.